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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 01:53

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

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I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Why do women change that much more with age?

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

All the time i was locked up.

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I could never make a relationship work though!

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

I don,t even have a pension.

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I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

When a narcissist mad at their new supply, do they take it out on the old supply?

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

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Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

Has anyone ever really waited that long and gotten a paper check mailed 20 days ago?

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

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I never cut or harmed myself..

But ive been too sick for many years..

Im dying but, im not bitter.

What was it like being spanked as a kid?

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Especially a lifetime of it.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

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But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

She was in good health!

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

I did it because my mum asked me too!

As i do to all so called friends.?

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

What did i know ?

(And it was in our own minds.)

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I will be 64.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Why did i forgive my father ?

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

And who doesn’t know suffering?

But, we were locked up after school.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

So, i spoilt her more .

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I was very sick at this time too.

I write beautiful poetry .

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

Ive learnt so much.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

One cannot live in the past .

He knew the spot.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Put me off passion for life!!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

She found it foreign!.

I couldn’t, believe it.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Would this be the day?

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

So whats the point in blame.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

But it wasn’t much.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

We all went to grammer schools

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I was seconnd youngest,

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

He resisted the act ,that day.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

She wouldn,t have been !

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

We were not on the streets..

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

I said to her

When she asked me how she looked .

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Who then, do I blame.?

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

On the 31st of Jan this month .

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

I have no regrets .

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Im still living with it.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

She loved him until the end.

This is soul school!.

I waited trembling.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

It was going to be , some day.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I was scared of men, in general

My family never makes their pension either.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Was to survive, this bastard.

And i lived it daily.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

I think the readers, may guess!

My life is so biszare .

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Comes on , in middle age.

She married twice! .

I was 9 years of age.